Always yelling at children is a disease that can be treated.

Love and rules are not only the two magic weapons of raising children, but also the cure of "roar" disease.

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Source, raising boys

ID:breedboy

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A mother shared in moments:" what is born is what is born! " One second I was yelled at, and the next I called my mother in my arms. "

Children always forgive their parents so easily.

if you have harmed colleagues or other relatives for a period of time, you will definitely not repair the relationship. Some even turn into enemies as a result.

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other parents will say:\" I don't have to hold my temper and suffocate myself? " When we were young, we were all beaten and scolded. Isn't that good?

in the face of such a reasonable rhetorical question, I have nothing to say.

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indeed, children are often willing to forgive the faults of" violent parents ", believing that their parents are in a bad mood, not that they don't love me.

Children always stand in their parents' shoes and understand their parents, but can we also control our temper?

I am also angry with the child, and I regret seeing the frightened child. so I secretly made up my mind to control my emotions.

yelling at children is a disease that can be cured!

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04 pan>

the most important thing is to reflect and analyze yourself.

Why do you yell at your children like this, even to many relatives, but be polite to outsiders and treat them like two people?

it is because of love that the child forgives your grumpiness, accepts your bad mood and licks the wound.

but this is not a reason to lose your temper again and again, instead, you should make yourself better and be kind to those who love you.

if you think and observe a little more, A person's temperament is closely related to his original family and parents.

I met a father who actually regretted hitting his child. but won't budge:" who told him not to listen to me, I will fight if he doesn't study hard! "

pan>

because when he was a child, his father chased him with a stick and beat him with a stick. No one has ever spoken to him patiently.

pan> when parents grow up, they often unconsciously beat and scold their children, unable to be gentle.

because no one has ever told you or shown you what to do.

if this method is not changed, it will really be passed on from generation to generation.

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secondly, tell yourself to manage your emotions and talk to your children.

pan>

in the article, the teacher always speaks in this way when referring to the teacher's instruction to the students-"speak in a gentle and serious voice".

this sentence is worthy of our careful study, light and gentle, without losing seriousness.

can be serious, but the tone is as gentle as possible, No need to yell, don't be ferocious.

really, when we lose our temper, we all look scary.

sometimes you will freak yourself out when you lose your temper with your child and take a picture.

so, the next time you want to be furious, take a deep breath and say to yourself: peace and peace, don't yell!

Control your bad temper pan>

so raising a child is a practice for parents, really.

lead by love, punish by rules, not by temper.

ection>

actually of all discipline, losing temper is the most useless.

like a child scolded for spilling a drink on a high-speed train, he only needs to know that he has finished his drink and put the lid on.

all other scolding and threats that children will forget when they get out of the car. what will not be left in the end, maybe just the harsh scolding of my mother, which looms in my memory many years later.

there are mothers who say, talk well, children don't listen, and only yell at them.

for example, when the egg father drags when he goes to take a shower at night, the egg father gets angry and sometimes yells.

when you talk to him, talk about what you can do instead of calling him out loud all the time. this is better than shouting.

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for example, I don't yell at him every time, but ask him to check the time. he looked at his watch and knew it was time to hurry up.

when the rules are finally internalized into habits, pan>

when he is distracted or scribbled pan>

what if I don't listen?

it depends on what the punishment is when you first set the learning rules, just follow this agreement.

pan> because he knows We will buy things we really need, not to mention, the demand that is not in accordance with the rules will not come even if it is noisy.

with the guidance of love, coupled with the restraint of rules, many problems will be solved.

and love and rules are not only the two magic weapons of raising children, but also the cure for roar disease.

-xa0END-

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other parents will say:\" I don't have to hold my temper and suffocate myself? " When we were young, we were all beaten and scolded. Isn't that good?

in the face of such a reasonable rhetorical question, I have nothing to say.

indeed, children are often willing to forgive the faults of" violent parents ", believing that their parents are in a bad mood, not that they don't love me.

Children always stand in their parents' shoes and understand their parents, but can we also control our temper?

I am also angry with the child, and I regret seeing the frightened child. so I secretly made up my mind to control my emotions.

yelling at children is a disease that can be cured!

04 pan>

the most important thing is to reflect and analyze yourself.

Why do you yell at your children like this, even to many relatives, but be polite to outsiders and treat them like two people?

it is because of love that the child forgives your grumpiness, accepts your bad mood and licks the wound.

but this is not a reason to lose your temper again and again, instead, you should make yourself better and be kind to those who love you.

if you think and observe a little more, A person's temperament is closely related to his original family and parents.

I met a father who actually regretted hitting his child. but won't budge:" who told him not to listen to me, I will fight if he doesn't study hard! "

pan>

because when he was a child, his father chased him with a stick and beat him with a stick. No one has ever spoken to him patiently.

pan> when parents grow up, they often unconsciously beat and scold their children, unable to be gentle.

because no one has ever told you or shown you what to do.

if this method is not changed, it will really be passed on from generation to generation.

secondly, tell yourself to manage your emotions and talk to your children.

pan>

in the article, the teacher always speaks in this way when referring to the teacher's instruction to the students-"speak in a gentle and serious voice".

this sentence is worthy of our careful study, light and gentle, without losing seriousness.

can be serious, but the tone is as gentle as possible, No need to yell, don't be ferocious.

really, when we lose our temper, we all look scary.

sometimes you will freak yourself out when you lose your temper with your child and take a picture.

so, the next time you want to be furious, take a deep breath and say to yourself: peace and peace, don't yell!

Control your bad temper pan>

so raising a child is a practice for parents, really.

lead by love, punish by rules, not by temper.

ection>

actually of all discipline, losing temper is the most useless.

like a child scolded for spilling a drink on a high-speed train, he only needs to know that he has finished his drink and put the lid on.

there are mothers who say, talk well, children don't listen, and only yell at them.

for example, when the egg father drags when he goes to take a shower at night, the egg father gets angry and sometimes yells.

when you talk to him, talk about what you can do instead of calling him out loud all the time. this is better than shouting.

for example, I don't yell at him every time, but ask him to check the time. he looked at his watch and knew it was time to hurry up.

when the rules are finally internalized into habits, pan>

when he is distracted or scribbled pan>

what if I don't listen?

it depends on what the punishment is when you first set the learning rules, just follow this agreement.

pan> because he knows We will buy things we really need, not to mention, the demand that is not in accordance with the rules will not come even if it is noisy.

with the guidance of love, coupled with the restraint of rules, many problems will be solved.

and love and rules are not only the two magic weapons of raising children, but also the cure for roar disease.

-xa0END-

04 pan>

the most important thing is to reflect and analyze yourself.

pan>

because when he was a child, his father chased him with a stick and beat him with a stick. No one has ever spoken to him patiently.

pan> when parents grow up, they often unconsciously beat and scold their children, unable to be gentle.

because no one has ever told you or shown you what to do.

if this method is not changed, it will really be passed on from generation to generation.

secondly, tell yourself to manage your emotions and talk to your children.

pan>

in the article, the teacher always speaks in this way when referring to the teacher's instruction to the students-"speak in a gentle and serious voice".

this sentence is worthy of our careful study, light and gentle, without losing seriousness.

can be serious, but the tone is as gentle as possible, No need to yell, don't be ferocious.

really, when we lose our temper, we all look scary.

sometimes you will freak yourself out when you lose your temper with your child and take a picture.

so, the next time you want to be furious, take a deep breath and say to yourself: peace and peace, don't yell!

Control your bad temper pan>

so raising a child is a practice for parents, really.

lead by love, punish by rules, not by temper.

ection>

actually of all discipline, losing temper is the most useless.

like a child scolded for spilling a drink on a high-speed train, he only needs to know that he has finished his drink and put the lid on.

there are mothers who say, talk well, children don't listen, and only yell at them.

for example, when the egg father drags when he goes to take a shower at night, the egg father gets angry and sometimes yells.

when you talk to him, talk about what you can do instead of calling him out loud all the time. this is better than shouting.

for example, I don't yell at him every time, but ask him to check the time. he looked at his watch and knew it was time to hurry up.

when the rules are finally internalized into habits, pan>

when he is distracted or scribbled pan>

what if I don't listen?

it depends on what the punishment is when you first set the learning rules, just follow this agreement.

pan> because he knows We will buy things we really need, not to mention, the demand that is not in accordance with the rules will not come even if it is noisy.

with the guidance of love, coupled with the restraint of rules, many problems will be solved.

and love and rules are not only the two magic weapons of raising children, but also the cure for roar disease.

-xa0END-

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secondly, tell yourself to manage your emotions and talk to your children.

pan>

in the article, the teacher always speaks in this way when referring to the teacher's instruction to the students-"speak in a gentle and serious voice".

this sentence is worthy of our careful study, light and gentle, without losing seriousness.

can be serious, but the tone is as gentle as possible, No need to yell, don't be ferocious.

really, when we lose our temper, we all look scary.

sometimes you will freak yourself out when you lose your temper with your child and take a picture.

so, the next time you want to be furious, take a deep breath and say to yourself: peace and peace, don't yell!

Control your bad temper pan>

so raising a child is a practice for parents, really.

lead by love, punish by rules, not by temper.

ection>

actually of all discipline, losing temper is the most useless.

like a child scolded for spilling a drink on a high-speed train, he only needs to know that he has finished his drink and put the lid on.

there are mothers who say, talk well, children don't listen, and only yell at them.

for example, when the egg father drags when he goes to take a shower at night, the egg father gets angry and sometimes yells.

when you talk to him, talk about what you can do instead of calling him out loud all the time. this is better than shouting.

for example, I don't yell at him every time, but ask him to check the time. he looked at his watch and knew it was time to hurry up.

when the rules are finally internalized into habits, pan>

when he is distracted or scribbled pan>

what if I don't listen?

it depends on what the punishment is when you first set the learning rules, just follow this agreement.

pan> because he knows We will buy things we really need, not to mention, the demand that is not in accordance with the rules will not come even if it is noisy.

with the guidance of love, coupled with the restraint of rules, many problems will be solved.

and love and rules are not only the two magic weapons of raising children, but also the cure for roar disease.

-xa0END-

secondly, tell yourself to manage your emotions and talk to your children.

-xa0END-