in real life, we often hear such words:

"Men dominate the outside and women dominate the interior."

"it is better to marry well than to learn well."

"Boys are rational, girls are emotional."

for a long time, women have always been defined and labeled as "gentle, weak and indecisive".

but is this really the case? What kind of female image do we need in this era?

in fact, there is always more than one side of women, and there are surprises on every side.

We often see this tough and powerful female force creating a different life experience.

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never define "she".

I would like to share with you five female characters who have different personalities and shine individually.

01

Last year, with the popularity of "Wind blowing Banxia", the name "Xu Banxia" began to enter everyone's field of vision.

is a big lady, her road in life is not smooth.

her mother died because she was in childbirth, but her father regarded her birth as misfortune, entered the marriage and was betrayed by her husband.

but the misfortunes of the first half of her life did not keep her where she was.

she smashed a wine bottle on the scum man's head, drew an end to the marriage with her own hands, and turned to open a new chapter in her life.

in a period of opportunities everywhere, Xu Banxia who dared to think and dare to do earned the first bucket of gold in his life.

in order to further gain contacts and resources, she went out of her way at the reception, pouring wine desperately, just to get a glimmer of opportunity.

when the boss came out, his peers were busy making a toast, while Xu Banxia directly snatched the boss's wine glass and blocked the wine for him.

when she was born at the grass roots, she didn't want to miss every possible opportunity.

when she didn't have enough money, she mortgaged her house, borrowed money everywhere, and even took all kinds of unknown risks.

she is well aware that this is not only an adventure, but also an opportunity, even if there is little hope, she will try her best to strive for it.

the boss around said:

"A little girl, don't always think about making money now. Your top priority now is to find a good man to marry."

Xu Banxia replied with a smile: "I am so young, I do not want to make money, what do I think?"

whoever says that women must choose to stay at home with their husbands and raise their children, Xu Banxia's life is a sober and independent life.

she knows very well that to be young is to make good money.

she is a big woman who is serious about her career. She tells us with her own experience that as long as she dares to work hard and forge ahead, women can also break out a world of their own.

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I believe that many viewers who have seen "everything is fine" have wondered: how rich is Su Mingyu?

she took care of 200000 of the funeral expenses for her mother's death.

when she learned that her family was selling her old house, she secretly bought it with 1.5 million yuan out of her own pocket.

Big Brother didn't pay enough for her father to buy a house, so she paid 200000 yuan for them without saying a word.

not only that, Su Mingyu in life is also the envy of countless people.

famous bags and clothes are changed in turn, the outfit on each appearance is tens of thousands of rhythms, and he firmly holds the initiative when he is in love.

looking at Su Mingyu, who is regarded as a savior by the Su family, confident and independent, many people say: it's good to have money!

Yes, having money can solve most of the troubles in life, but Su Mingyu's charm is not just because of money.

as the third member of the Su family, she is the only girl in the family. She can be said to have been aggrieved in a family that favors sons over daughters.

for example, two brothers can eat ham and eggs, but there is only a bad pickled rice for her.

she got good grades, but her mother was reluctant to buy her a review material.

during the college entrance examination, her goal was Tsinghua University, but her mother forced her to go to normal school to save money.

facing all kinds of injustice, she held back her strength and made up her mind to get ahead.

after entering the workplace for many years, she has become an executive of the company, but only she knows how much she has paid behind.

after a party, Su Mingyu collapsed in the bathtub as soon as she got home.

although she was so sleepy, she still clenched her cell phone in her hand for fear of missing any phone call.

when her sister-in-law came to live in her house, her front feet were still lamenting the luxury of her house, and her back feet saw her holding her notebook and staying up late working till dawn.

maybe she looks a little embarrassed when she tries to make money, but she looks really handsome when she needs money.

the chicken feathers of the original family, instead of being defeated, she turned them into a driving force to move forward, winning back what the original family owed her.

in reality, one of the favorite words of many people, such as Su Mingcheng, is: how many stinky money is great!

but in Su Mingyu, we can see: the way you work hard to make money is amazing!

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3

to count the most beautiful female characters in costume dramas, Zhao Paner, played by Liu Yifei, must be on the list.

after all, some people can look out of the sky even in a sack.

however, compared with Zhao Paner's beauty, her story is more attractive.

in order for his sweetheart to enter Beijing for reference, Zhao Paner used his savings to buy real estate and insurance for him.Registered permanent residence.

Ouyang Xu was penniless, so Zhao Paner opened a teahouse for him to eat, drink and buy books.

did not think that a few years of pay in exchange for Ouyang Xu's high school, but also in exchange for a betrayal.

instead of swallowing anger or chasing to marry him, Zhao Paner chose to ask for an explanation face to face.

We have seen so much that we are really disappointed and put up with the drama.

but for what? They are obviously the injured party, why should they put up with it?

maybe some people will put up with love, but Zhao Paner won't.

she dared to love and hate, and even in the process of getting along with Gu Qianfan, she always kept this sobriety and determination.

once, Zhao Paner overheard Gu Qianfan say that he was just playing with her.

Zhao Paner was extremely sad, but she didn't let go angrily. She told the other party directly that if you were just fooling around, I wouldn't accompany you.

do not leave any ambiguous space, even if you love each other deeply, you will not give in for the sake of love.

Zhao Paner, who is sober and independent in love, is the same in life.

after the two officially fell in love, Gu Qianfan expressed his willingness to support her, implying that she no longer had to be a businessman.

but Zhao Paner still insists on doing a good job in teahouse business.

not only because she likes, but most importantly, she will not and dare not rely on others.

she knows that women, it is better to rely on others than on their own, no matter whether they marry or not, they have the ability to earn money, is the long-term solution.

Love has never been a woman's greatest strength, self-reliance is.

04

with regard to "stay-at-home mothers", the first thing that many people think of is aged woman, who revolves around her children and housework every day.

but Gu Jia redefined the job of being a stay-at-home wife.

one sentence is:

he can go to the hall, go to the kitchen, run the company, fight for the other woman, and be proficient in all 18 martial arts.

before marriage, Gu Jia, a good-looking and highly educated white-collar worker in a foreign company, resigned and started a business with her husband.

after getting married and having children, Gu Jia chose to take care of the children at home.

can be called "perfect wife".

Gu Jia is good at taking care of children and human relationships, and his cooking skill is comparable to that of a five-star chef.

not only IQ online, but also literate and martial. When his son was bullied, Gu Jia took off his high heels without saying a word and did it directly.

although she is a full-time wife, Gu Jia is also unambiguous in handling the company's business.

she is in charge of the financial power of the company, and she can handle the list that her husband cannot handle.

it can be said that in the company, Gu Jiacai is the one who controls the overall situation.

who would have thought that her main job is actually a stay-at-home mother?

Gu Jia explains how valuable the job of being a stay-at-home wife is.

she is worthy of her husband and family.

so after discovering that her husband was having an affair, she walked away decisively.

when the company is in crisis, she has the ability to solve problems; when the marriage is no longer pure, she can soberly stop losses in time.

, a special project column prepared for one book a week

never define "she".

I would like to share with you five female characters who have different personalities and shine individually.

01

Last year, with the popularity of "Wind blowing Banxia", the name "Xu Banxia" began to enter everyone's field of vision.

is a big lady, her road in life is not smooth.

her mother died because she was in childbirth, but her father regarded her birth as misfortune, entered the marriage and was betrayed by her husband.

but the misfortunes of the first half of her life did not keep her where she was.

she smashed a wine bottle on the scum man's head, drew an end to the marriage with her own hands, and turned to open a new chapter in her life.

in a period of opportunities everywhere, Xu Banxia who dared to think and dare to do earned the first bucket of gold in his life.

in order to further gain contacts and resources, she went out of her way at the reception, pouring wine desperately, just to get a glimmer of opportunity.

when the boss came out, his peers were busy making a toast, while Xu Banxia directly snatched the boss's wine glass and blocked the wine for him.

when she was born at the grass roots, she didn't want to miss every possible opportunity.

when she didn't have enough money, she mortgaged her house, borrowed money everywhere, and even took all kinds of unknown risks.

she is well aware that this is not only an adventure, but also an opportunity, even if there is little hope, she will try her best to strive for it.

the boss around said:

"A little girl, don't always think about making money now. Your top priority now is to find a good man to marry."

Xu Banxia replied with a smile: "I am so young, I do not want to make money, what do I think?"

whoever says that women must choose to stay at home with their husbands and raise their children, Xu Banxia's life is a sober and independent life.

she knows very well that to be young is to make good money.

she is a big woman who is serious about her career. She tells us with her own experience that as long as she dares to work hard and forge ahead, women can also break out a world of their own.

0

2

I believe that many viewers who have seen "everything is fine" have wondered: how rich is Su Mingyu?

she took care of 200000 of the funeral expenses for her mother's death.

when she learned that her family was selling her old house, she secretly bought it with 1.5 million yuan out of her own pocket.

Big Brother didn't pay enough for her father to buy a house, so she paid 200000 yuan for them without saying a word.

not only that, Su Mingyu in life is also the envy of countless people.

famous bags and clothes are changed in turn, the outfit on each appearance is tens of thousands of rhythms, and he firmly holds the initiative when he is in love.

looking at Su Mingyu, who is regarded as a savior by the Su family, confident and independent, many people say: it's good to have money!

Yes, having money can solve most of the troubles in life, but Su Mingyu's charm is not just because of money.

as the third member of the Su family, she is the only girl in the family. She can be said to have been aggrieved in a family that favors sons over daughters.

for example, two brothers can eat ham and eggs, but there is only a bad pickled rice for her.

she got good grades, but her mother was reluctant to buy her a review material.

during the college entrance examination, her goal was Tsinghua University, but her mother forced her to go to normal school to save money.

facing all kinds of injustice, she held back her strength and made up her mind to get ahead.

after entering the workplace for many years, she has become an executive of the company, but only she knows how much she has paid behind.

after a party, Su Mingyu collapsed in the bathtub as soon as she got home.

although she was so sleepy, she still clenched her cell phone in her hand for fear of missing any phone call.

when her sister-in-law came to live in her house, her front feet were still lamenting the luxury of her house, and her back feet saw her holding her notebook and staying up late working till dawn.

maybe she looks a little embarrassed when she tries to make money, but she looks really handsome when she needs money.

the chicken feathers of the original family, instead of being defeated, she turned them into a driving force to move forward, winning back what the original family owed her.

in reality, one of the favorite words of many people, such as Su Mingcheng, is: how many stinky money is great!

but in Su Mingyu, we can see: the way you work hard to make money is amazing!

0

3

to count the most beautiful female characters in costume dramas, Zhao Paner, played by Liu Yifei, must be on the list.

after all, some people can look out of the sky even in a sack.

however, compared with Zhao Paner's beauty, her story is more attractive.

in order for his sweetheart to enter Beijing for reference, Zhao Paner used his savings to buy real estate and insurance for him.Registered permanent residence.

Ouyang Xu was penniless, so Zhao Paner opened a teahouse for him to eat, drink and buy books.

did not think that a few years of pay in exchange for Ouyang Xu's high school, but also in exchange for a betrayal.

instead of swallowing anger or chasing to marry him, Zhao Paner chose to ask for an explanation face to face.

We have seen so much that we are really disappointed and put up with the drama.

but for what? They are obviously the injured party, why should they put up with it?

maybe some people will put up with love, but Zhao Paner won't.

she dared to love and hate, and even in the process of getting along with Gu Qianfan, she always kept this sobriety and determination.

once, Zhao Paner overheard Gu Qianfan say that he was just playing with her.

Zhao Paner was extremely sad, but she didn't let go angrily. She told the other party directly that if you were just fooling around, I wouldn't accompany you.

do not leave any ambiguous space, even if you love each other deeply, you will not give in for the sake of love.

Zhao Paner, who is sober and independent in love, is the same in life.

after the two officially fell in love, Gu Qianfan expressed his willingness to support her, implying that she no longer had to be a businessman.

but Zhao Paner still insists on doing a good job in teahouse business.

not only because she likes, but most importantly, she will not and dare not rely on others.

she knows that women, it is better to rely on others than on their own, no matter whether they marry or not, they have the ability to earn money, is the long-term solution.

Love has never been a woman's greatest strength, self-reliance is.

04

with regard to "stay-at-home mothers", the first thing that many people think of is aged woman, who revolves around her children and housework every day.

but Gu Jia redefined the job of being a stay-at-home wife.

one sentence is:

he can go to the hall, go to the kitchen, run the company, fight for the other woman, and be proficient in all 18 martial arts.

before marriage, Gu Jia, a good-looking and highly educated white-collar worker in a foreign company, resigned and started a business with her husband.

after getting married and having children, Gu Jia chose to take care of the children at home.

can be called "perfect wife".

Gu Jia is good at taking care of children and human relationships, and his cooking skill is comparable to that of a five-star chef.

not only IQ online, but also literate and martial. When his son was bullied, Gu Jia took off his high heels without saying a word and did it directly.

although she is a full-time wife, Gu Jia is also unambiguous in handling the company's business.

she is in charge of the financial power of the company, and she can handle the list that her husband cannot handle.

it can be said that in the company, Gu Jiacai is the one who controls the overall situation.

who would have thought that her main job is actually a stay-at-home mother?

Gu Jia explains how valuable the job of being a stay-at-home wife is.

she is worthy of her husband and family.

so after discovering that her husband was having an affair, she walked away decisively.

when the company is in crisis, she has the ability to solve problems; when the marriage is no longer pure, she can soberly stop losses in time.

at the end of the story, her husband is in jail, while she runs the tea factory and starts all over again.

she is not afraid of failure, and her own strength is her strongest strength.

for her, it's only thirty, and life is just beginning.

05

in recent years, there are many big women on the screen, but such as nine girls

(Zheng Jiumei)

the same legend is in the minority.

the nine girls in the play, the eldest daughter of the Guangzhou gangster, have been in charge of the family's core business for many years.

Middle-aged, in power, evil girls, such people set up, so that the appearance of nine girls will directly be a moment of highlight.

when she opens her mouth, she does not forgive others, and she often gives out golden sentences.

she acts fiercely and shows no mercy to the enemy.

but cunning and ferocious, it is only her A side, and the nine girls have the most kind and pure B side.

say "do not do good deeds", but secretly send the child out of the dangerous place.

thousands of children, because nine girls were able to escape the fate of displacement.

and the most rare thing about nine girls is her loyalty.

because she understands the harm of drugs, she is determined to burn all the drugs in the hands of the enemy, but the process is doomed to be full of difficulties and dangers.

as a matter of fact, she is not short of money or position. She needn't have done so.

but in order to protect her relatives and friends, and for the sake of justice, she chose to walk between dangers and deal with the enemy.

the "righteousness" in the nine girls is not only the righteousness of justice, but also the righteousness of great righteousness.

treat friends, attach importance to the morality of rivers and lakes, and never forget the great righteousness of the country in the face of right and wrong.

as an online saying goes:

"bravery is never determined by physique, chivalry, nor is it exclusive to a particular gender."

Women can be full of tenderness, or they can be brave.

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nowadays, more and more outstanding female characters are active on the screen.

every different woman has her own splendid life.

she can be a sober person who is single-minded in making money, or she can be a perfect mother who is gentle and omnipotent in front of her children.

she can be looking forward toA little woman in love can also be a big lady in the workplace.

every one of her has unlimited possibilities. no matter what kind of identity they are, they are shining and brave women.

stop defining women with stereotyped labels.

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as long as you dare to think and dare to do it, women can look in thousands of ways.

, I hope that every woman can bravely be herself and live a wonderful and shining life.