Children who often listen to these two words are doomed to be useless, you say it every day!

Please be a guide instead of a stumbling block when your child is growing up.

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obedience becomes a ruler

parents have set a yardstick for measuring the quality of their children since childhood:

those who are obedient are good boys, otherwise they are bad boys. A good boy can be rewarded, but a bad boy can only be punished.

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such a little girl may get a compliment in any guest's house, but I see nothing but heartache in my eyes.

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obedience becomes a ruler

the child becomes mute

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is this scene deja vu?

"since no one listens, let's not talk!" An obedient child will one day become a dumb person who cannot speak at home, closing his heart and drifting away from his parents.

they no longer resist or think.

like the kids in the short film "training the Rabbit", "obedient" makes them mindless rabbits.

can only say things that make adults happy and do things that make them satisfied. As for the self, it is no longer important for children wearing rabbit headgear.

even the tenacious Pippilu in the short film has to give up his difference, pretend to be an obedient rabbit and keep his mouth shut.

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thought is life." line-height: 1.75 line-height left: 8px;\ "> writer George Bernard Shaw said: "thought is life. "what's the difference between a mindless child and a walking corpse?

there are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no identical good children.

parents should help their children find their own luminous spots, instead of using the word "obedient" to make them model students.

Children who disobey

Research shows that smart kids with flexible thinking and strong learning ability usuallyIt has the characteristics of active, talkative, rebellious and strong sense of self-intention.

but these traits that represent cleverness are headaches in the eyes of most parents.

just ignore the child and let him misbehave?

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Let active children play

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active children have more developed motor nerves than the average child , so they always want to jump up and down, consuming endless energy to keep them alive all the time.

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Egg Mommy suggestion:

with such children, parents yell," will you sit down? " You might as well take them to the park to have fun, or sign him up for some sports classes.

after spending a lot of energy outside, the child will naturally be able to sit down and rest quietly for a while.

in this way, not only can children exercise and cultivate interests, but parents can also liberate . Why not get three at one stroke?

Let talkative children talk

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but in fact children who talk more strongly express their desires and hope to get more attention, so they continue to use words to attract other people's attention. children who always ask questions are more active in thinking and more imaginative.

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Egg Mommy suggestion:

pay more attention to the talkative child and ask him after school," how was your day? " Talk to him about embarrassing things in life and make him feel loved and cared for more than anything else.

exercise their children's language expression skills and logical thinking , and maybe train the next famous host

listen to rebellious children

the earliest rebellious period occurs when the child is 1 year old, and the budding of self-consciousness makes the child learn to refuse and resist.

when they were young, they used their body movements to resist the arrangements you made for him, and when they grew up, they used every means to highlight their uniqueness.

rebellious children are self-conscious, they are more independent, do not want to be bound, and prefer a free life.

Egg Mom suggestion:

in the face of rebellious children, instead of yelling and suppressing, parents should calm down and listen to what they have to say.

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consider it a role swap, this time parents are "obedient".

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to say a thousand words, in fact, disobedience is the most normal performance!

every child is an individual with his own will and should enjoy his own life instead of becoming an accessory to his parents.

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parents, please be a guide instead of a stumbling block to your child's growth, stop kidnapping your child with "obedience" and give them more freedom!

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the child becomes mute

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Children who disobey

Let active children play

pan>

active children have more developed motor nerves than the average child , so they always want to jump up and down, consuming endless energy to keep them alive all the time.

Egg Mommy suggestion:

with such children, parents yell," will you sit down? " You might as well take them to the park to have fun, or sign him up for some sports classes.

after spending a lot of energy outside, the child will naturally be able to sit down and rest quietly for a while.

in this way, not only can children exercise and cultivate interests, but parents can also liberate . Why not get three at one stroke?

Let talkative children talk

pan>

Egg Mommy suggestion:

pay more attention to the talkative child and ask him after school," how was your day? " Talk to him about embarrassing things in life and make him feel loved and cared for more than anything else.

exercise their children's language expression skills and logical thinking , and maybe train the next famous host

listen to rebellious children

the earliest rebellious period occurs when the child is 1 year old, and the budding of self-consciousness makes the child learn to refuse and resist.

when they were young, they used their body movements to resist the arrangements you made for him, and when they grew up, they used every means to highlight their uniqueness.

rebellious children are self-conscious, they are more independent, do not want to be bound, and prefer a free life.

Egg Mom suggestion:

in the face of rebellious children, instead of yelling and suppressing, parents should calm down and listen to what they have to say.

pan>

consider it a role swap, this time parents are "obedient".

to say a thousand words, in fact, disobedience is the most normal performance!

every child is an individual with his own will and should enjoy his own life instead of becoming an accessory to his parents.

pan>

parents, please be a guide instead of a stumbling block to your child's growth, stop kidnapping your child with "obedience" and give them more freedom!

-xa0END-

Let active children play

Egg Mommy suggestion:

Let talkative children talk

pan>

Egg Mommy suggestion:

pay more attention to the talkative child and ask him after school," how was your day? " Talk to him about embarrassing things in life and make him feel loved and cared for more than anything else.

exercise their children's language expression skills and logical thinking , and maybe train the next famous host

listen to rebellious children

the earliest rebellious period occurs when the child is 1 year old, and the budding of self-consciousness makes the child learn to refuse and resist.

when they were young, they used their body movements to resist the arrangements you made for him, and when they grew up, they used every means to highlight their uniqueness.

rebellious children are self-conscious, they are more independent, do not want to be bound, and prefer a free life.

Egg Mom suggestion:

in the face of rebellious children, instead of yelling and suppressing, parents should calm down and listen to what they have to say.

pan>

consider it a role swap, this time parents are "obedient".

to say a thousand words, in fact, disobedience is the most normal performance!

every child is an individual with his own will and should enjoy his own life instead of becoming an accessory to his parents.

pan>

parents, please be a guide instead of a stumbling block to your child's growth, stop kidnapping your child with "obedience" and give them more freedom!

-xa0END-

Let talkative children talk

Egg Mommy suggestion:

listen to rebellious children

Egg Mom suggestion:

in the face of rebellious children, instead of yelling and suppressing, parents should calm down and listen to what they have to say.

pan>

consider it a role swap, this time parents are "obedient".

to say a thousand words, in fact, disobedience is the most normal performance!

every child is an individual with his own will and should enjoy his own life instead of becoming an accessory to his parents.

pan>

parents, please be a guide instead of a stumbling block to your child's growth, stop kidnapping your child with "obedience" and give them more freedom!

Egg Mom suggestion:

in the face of rebellious children, instead of yelling and suppressing, parents should calm down and listen to what they have to say.

pan>

consider it a role swap, this time parents are "obedient".

to say a thousand words, in fact, disobedience is the most normal performance!

every child is an individual with his own will and should enjoy his own life instead of becoming an accessory to his parents.

pan>

parents, please be a guide instead of a stumbling block to your child's growth, stop kidnapping your child with "obedience" and give them more freedom!

-xa0END-