this way of intimidating and threatening children is actually parents slacking off and taking shortcuts in "education"!

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intimidation, make children sensitive and inferiority complex, lack of sense of security

"if you go on like this, Mom and Dad won't want you!"

" I count 3, 2, 10, 1! If you can't afford it again, you can sleep here! "

" come on! I won't wait for you when it's too late! "

these three sentences are believed to have been said by many parents when they were children, even to their children. In fact, this is a common kind of "intimidation" education.

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this seemingly" strict father "education makes Yang Yuchen always submissive in front of his father. And Yang Yuchen in the later program, saw his father Yang Shuo coming, but also subconsciously dodged, it is obvious that he is afraid of his father.

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if our child can't get enough sense of security from his parents, where does he get his sense of security?

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intimidate parents to be the last people their children want to believe

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intimidating education may scare children for a while, but not for the rest of their lives.

In search of an outstanding black and white lace wedding dress to make you look your best? Immediately after buying, you get a peace of mind.

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however, children will soon grow up, and when they have the ability to think, they will find that what their elders say is a lie.

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We, who are the most trusted and omniscient in the minds of our children, have gradually lost their trust.

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to avoid this situation, we need to do this

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in Mom is Superman pan> ? A segment : Fok think Yanjang mm-hmm come to lunch and tell him there is his favorite tomato scrambled egg today. but ahem comes to the table see only tomatoes eggs soup, suddenly lost your temper and stopped eating.

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