Only by taking every step in a down-to-earth way is it possible to get the final success!
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some time ago, my friend Xiaoning was criticized by the teacher.
it turns out that her son was hiding from the microphone and camera when he was at home, secretly playing games and listening to music, but one day he was accidentally exposed and was discovered by the teacher.
the teacher scolded ta on the spot and questioned why friends were so careless about their children's study.
"this kid is hiding in the room during class and playing the lecture sound outside. How do I know he's doing something else?"
my friend complained to me with a look of disgust.
but then adds:
this kid is smart, but he doesn't work hard . What are we going to do? "
this sentence ostensibly complains about the child, but it is more likely to be proud of the child's "cleverness".
actually, the egg mother has heard a lot of similar words:
" the kid is smart, but he doesn't put his mind into his studies. "
"he's just lazy because he's got a quick brain!"
"he pulls others a lot with a little effort!"
in most parents' ears, nothing grabs the ear more than the word "smart". Although this is a critical remark, it will inevitably make people complacent.
because the implication is, "your child is very smart, as long as you work a little harder, you will certainly be able to surpass others!" It seems that successful people only need to be smart and make a little effort.
is this really the case? Actually this is not so.
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
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IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
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pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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author xa0 |
some time ago, my friend Xiaoning was criticized by the teacher.
it turns out that her son was hiding from the microphone and camera when he was at home, secretly playing games and listening to music, but one day he was accidentally exposed and was discovered by the teacher.
the teacher scolded ta on the spot and questioned why friends were so careless about their children's study.
"this kid is hiding in the room during class and playing the lecture sound outside. How do I know he's doing something else?"
my friend complained to me with a look of disgust.
but then adds:
this kid is smart, but he doesn't work hard . What are we going to do? "
this sentence ostensibly complains about the child, but it is more likely to be proud of the child's "cleverness".
actually, the egg mother has heard a lot of similar words:
" the kid is smart, but he doesn't put his mind into his studies. "
"he's just lazy because he's got a quick brain!"
"he pulls others a lot with a little effort!"
in most parents' ears, nothing grabs the ear more than the word "smart". Although this is a critical remark, it will inevitably make people complacent.
because the implication is, "your child is very smart, as long as you work a little harder, you will certainly be able to surpass others!" It seems that successful people only need to be smart and make a little effort.
is this really the case? Actually this is not so.
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesIpEgN4SeMm8zzzediccV8saGdV83EnYibOyPuq5u8GPOAcb02fa4v98jQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\">
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
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pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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it turns out that her son was hiding from the microphone and camera when he was at home, secretly playing games and listening to music, but one day he was accidentally exposed and was discovered by the teacher.
the teacher scolded ta on the spot and questioned why friends were so careless about their children's study.
"this kid is hiding in the room during class and playing the lecture sound outside. How do I know he's doing something else?"
my friend complained to me with a look of disgust.
but then adds:
this kid is smart, but he doesn't work hard . What are we going to do? "
this sentence ostensibly complains about the child, but it is more likely to be proud of the child's "cleverness".
actually, the egg mother has heard a lot of similar words:
" the kid is smart, but he doesn't put his mind into his studies. "
"he's just lazy because he's got a quick brain!"
"he pulls others a lot with a little effort!"
in most parents' ears, nothing grabs the ear more than the word "smart". Although this is a critical remark, it will inevitably make people complacent.
because the implication is, "your child is very smart, as long as you work a little harder, you will certainly be able to surpass others!" It seems that successful people only need to be smart and make a little effort.
is this really the case? Actually this is not so.
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesIpEgN4SeMm8zzzediccV8saGdV83EnYibOyPuq5u8GPOAcb02fa4v98jQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\">
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
it turns out that her son was hiding from the microphone and camera when he was at home, secretly playing games and listening to music, but one day he was accidentally exposed and was discovered by the teacher.
the teacher scolded ta on the spot and questioned why friends were so careless about their children's study.
"this kid is hiding in the room during class and playing the lecture sound outside. How do I know he's doing something else?"
my friend complained to me with a look of disgust.
but then adds:
this kid is smart, but he doesn't work hard . What are we going to do? "
this sentence ostensibly complains about the child, but it is more likely to be proud of the child's "cleverness".
actually, the egg mother has heard a lot of similar words:
" the kid is smart, but he doesn't put his mind into his studies. "
"he's just lazy because he's got a quick brain!"
"he pulls others a lot with a little effort!"
in most parents' ears, nothing grabs the ear more than the word "smart". Although this is a critical remark, it will inevitably make people complacent.
because the implication is, "your child is very smart, as long as you work a little harder, you will certainly be able to surpass others!" It seems that successful people only need to be smart and make a little effort.
is this really the case? Actually this is not so.
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesIpEgN4SeMm8zzzediccV8saGdV83EnYibOyPuq5u8GPOAcb02fa4v98jQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\">
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
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secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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the teacher scolded ta on the spot and questioned why friends were so careless about their children's study.
"this kid is hiding in the room during class and playing the lecture sound outside. How do I know he's doing something else?"
my friend complained to me with a look of disgust.
but then adds:
this kid is smart, but he doesn't work hard . What are we going to do? "
this sentence ostensibly complains about the child, but it is more likely to be proud of the child's "cleverness".
actually, the egg mother has heard a lot of similar words:
" the kid is smart, but he doesn't put his mind into his studies. "
"he's just lazy because he's got a quick brain!"
"he pulls others a lot with a little effort!"
in most parents' ears, nothing grabs the ear more than the word "smart". Although this is a critical remark, it will inevitably make people complacent.
because the implication is, "your child is very smart, as long as you work a little harder, you will certainly be able to surpass others!" It seems that successful people only need to be smart and make a little effort.
is this really the case? Actually this is not so.
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesIpEgN4SeMm8zzzediccV8saGdV83EnYibOyPuq5u8GPOAcb02fa4v98jQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\">
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
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pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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the teacher scolded ta on the spot and questioned why friends were so careless about their children's study.
"this kid is hiding in the room during class and playing the lecture sound outside. How do I know he's doing something else?"
my friend complained to me with a look of disgust.
but then adds:
this kid is smart, but he doesn't work hard . What are we going to do? "
this sentence ostensibly complains about the child, but it is more likely to be proud of the child's "cleverness".
actually, the egg mother has heard a lot of similar words:
" the kid is smart, but he doesn't put his mind into his studies. "
"he's just lazy because he's got a quick brain!"
"he pulls others a lot with a little effort!"
in most parents' ears, nothing grabs the ear more than the word "smart". Although this is a critical remark, it will inevitably make people complacent.
because the implication is, "your child is very smart, as long as you work a little harder, you will certainly be able to surpass others!" It seems that successful people only need to be smart and make a little effort.
is this really the case? Actually this is not so.
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesIpEgN4SeMm8zzzediccV8saGdV83EnYibOyPuq5u8GPOAcb02fa4v98jQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\">
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
but then adds:
this kid is smart, but he doesn't work hard . What are we going to do? "
this sentence ostensibly complains about the child, but it is more likely to be proud of the child's "cleverness".
actually, the egg mother has heard a lot of similar words:
" the kid is smart, but he doesn't put his mind into his studies. "
"he's just lazy because he's got a quick brain!"
"he pulls others a lot with a little effort!"
in most parents' ears, nothing grabs the ear more than the word "smart". Although this is a critical remark, it will inevitably make people complacent.
because the implication is, "your child is very smart, as long as you work a little harder, you will certainly be able to surpass others!" It seems that successful people only need to be smart and make a little effort.
is this really the case? Actually this is not so.
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesIpEgN4SeMm8zzzediccV8saGdV83EnYibOyPuq5u8GPOAcb02fa4v98jQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\">
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
"kids are smart, but they just don't work hard" is more like an anesthetic, it makes children boast that they are smart, ignores the importance of effort !
how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesIpEgN4SeMm8zzzediccV8saGdV83EnYibOyPuq5u8GPOAcb02fa4v98jQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\">
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
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IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
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pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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how many children who are complacent because they are "very smart" end up ruined by the word "not diligent"!
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IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
IQ determines the lower limit. Try to determine the upper limit
pan>
"what happened to those children who were judged this kid is smart, but doesn't like to work hard ?"
Wang Anshi's protagonist in "Shang Zhongyong" is such a gifted child.
trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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trong> when he was five years old, he was able to write a poem with high literary talent.
what's more, if my father assigns something for him to write poetry, he can finish it right away. Many people marvel that they regard him as a genius once in a century, and strong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to get his poems .
Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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Father takes him around to make money, but seven or eight years later, Fang Zhongyong's poetry level is much lower than before.
Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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Seven or eight years later, he has completely lost his talent, just like an ordinary person.
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
Why does a child who is smart since childhood end up like this?
blindly consumes his child's "talent" , but does not cherish this rare gift.
so you ask me what will happen if I say to my child, "you are smart, but you don't work hard"?
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
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secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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I will tell you that they will eventually be lost in the crowd, mediocre life.
because this is ostensibly an encouragement, but essentially a compliment to the child's intelligence, which will push the child into the abyss of not wanting to make progress.
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
American scholars have compared the effects of praising children's work process and their natural traits (such as cleverness) on children. After five years of follow-up research, it is found that
" you are so smart "does not actually play a role in promoting children's enthusiasm for learning.
so parents should stop encouraging their children with the phrase" you're so smart, you just don't work hard "!
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
you know, IQ can only determine the lower limit, while effort determines the upper limit .
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesI6LISVkKmIicPDCxlJNQL1gz5AN8yMAkxpbpQ1kicr5jicB3bqheB53icgQ/640?wx_fmt=png\ "data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 36\ "style=\" width: auto;\ "title=\"\ ">
pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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if you want your child to be an excellent person, cleverness is just a knocking brick. Persevering efforts and diligence are the most important magic weapons.
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it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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pan>
it's not your turn to fight for talent
some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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some time ago, a schedule by high achiever of Zhejiang University impressed many parents.
the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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the schedule is arranged from 6am to 12:30 every day.
look at the learning content of the schedule, his schedule is accurate to minute and second.
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
from physical chemistry to basketball and swimming, not only can you learn how to play, fly airplanes, scuba dive, and create your own fashion clothes. Reveal real efforts .
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
remember such a sentence:
pan>
A view put forward by American comparative psychologist Murray in his book normal Curve, which also confirms this sentence:
trong>
Yes, there is no world-wide difference in IQ among us ordinary people, and what we achieve in the end basically depends on the degree of effort we have acquired.
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
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ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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but the phrase "you are so smart, you just don't work hard" completely negates the importance of effort and leads to the following two consequences--
A child who only listens to the first half of the sentence and then thinks he is smart. disdains diligence , thinking that he can do much better than those stupid people who work hard without any effort, and doesn't want to work hard at all.
there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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there is an invisible pressure for children to hear this sentence , unconsciously thinking: if I try hard, but still fail, does it mean that I am bad?
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either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
either way, essentially makes the child deviate from self-cognition , unable to recognize his own ability, and may set his goal too high or too low, leading to a lifetime of mediocrity.
these are the last results we want as parents.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIll3JXE8yLVPHJF87m4vMesID9azI6svYB7KC8KWQ3VZjwdOVHiatHqbmFfnPXicYL8UsZOVb0iabskNQ/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\ "png\" data-w=\ "36\" style=\ "width: auto \ "title=\"\ ">
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
ingenuity is just ingenuity. Effort is great wisdom
I believe that every parent is looking forward to a bright future for their children. But the road of educating children is long, which requires us to pay painstaking efforts and energy.
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
whether the child is smart or mediocre, whether they can achieve success in the future depends on whether we have the intention to guide them.
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
Liu Xingma: I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I want you to learn, but you don't learn it yourself!
Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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Liu Xing: I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was still young, I was not sensible, aren't you sensible?
you should have trained me and educated me since childhood, and you have forced me to learn since childhood.
Children are not sensible, and they will inevitably fear difficulties and retreat in the process of growing up and learning. As parents, we can guide our children from the following three aspects.
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
pan>
secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/VF6kXIiaYIlmC7jFqxLHeDuPX6icicDkT19hkyickFuY0zvIibyVI7cL9SbsYz4IzTDcFQbs0lKmXPkxpN0qy5qQPGg/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 900\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
first of all, we need to let our children establish correct values.
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secondly, we should let our children learn to endure hardship.
Human nature is greedy for comfort. If you can't bear hardships, you will.Flinch in case of trouble, if you don't advance, you will fall behind. Children may not know that ta has to eat the same "hardship" of learning at present as it does of later life.
No one's success is readily available. No matter how powerful people are, they are inseparable from persevering efforts and determination to make continuous progress.
as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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as ordinary people, only when we take each step in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve final success.
share with parents all over the world!
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share with parents all over the world!
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