The more parents love their children, the more they are willing to let them bear hardships.
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as the material conditions of modern families are getting better and better, many parents respond to their children's needs almost every time:
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therefore, families who were not well-off raised a "rich second generation" who spent a lot of money.
some parents even feel that they are too busy at work to be with their children often, so they regard meeting their children's demands as a kind of compensation to their children, no matter what their children ask for.
do not know that children who are satisfied with everything will become self-centered people for a long time, losing their temper and complaining that their parents are not satisfied with everything.
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Chen Ma saw such a news on the Internet:
A 12-year-old boy broke something in a teahouse and asked his mother to pay for it. Mom just taught him a few words.
as a result, the little boy grabbed his mother by the neck and beat his mother in full view.
it's not hard to imagine how much parents usually dote on their children before they let their children hit on their mothers in public.
A long-spoiled child is bound to lack the ability to be independent and take his parents' efforts for granted. will only become a selfish" white-eyed wolf "in exchange for intensified demands and comparisons.
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not willing to let children suffer
how can children learn to turn pain into happiness if they don't endure hardship?
parents are not willing to bear hardships at all, but they are actually strangling their children's ability to survive in society in the future.
Japanese TV station NHK recently reported such a news: a 56-year-old man was unemployed at home for a long time because he failed in school as a teenager and hit a wall when he was looking for a job. He depends on his parents all the year round.
later, after his father got cancer and his mother suffered from cognitive impairment and died one after another, the man ate his parents' last meager pension and finally died in a cold home due to chronic malnutrition.
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an adult man with hands and feet gnawed at home for 30 years and finally starved to death.
I have seen such a fable in Chen Chen's storybook:
A stone of high quality was chosen by the sculptor to make a Buddha statue. As a result, the stone was very afraid of pain, so the sculptor had to give up carving and regard it as an ordinary paving stone.
the story is so simple that even the morning just entering kindergarten knows: only those who can bear hardships and are not afraid of pain can have a better life.
in our real life, how many parents are afraid of their children suffering and treat their children like flowers in a greenhouse from an early age. When the children finally get into society, they can't bear a little blow and accomplish nothing in the end.
the more parents love their children, the more they are willing to let them suffer. The hardships he endures today will eventually pave the way for him to walk better tomorrow.
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many parents like to use "the child is still young" and "the child is not sensible" as a shield to cover up their children's mistakes. but don't know, habitual son is like killing a child, and every connivance of parents is tantamount to building a wall of imprisonment for their children.
There is such news on the Internet: a 31-year-old man was caught with a fake driver's license, and according to relevant regulations, the traffic police imposed a fine of 5000 yuan and administrative detention for 15 days.
his parents are extremely excited about this:
"you've gone too far. He's just a kid. He's only 31 years old! Why are you being fined so heavily? "
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although it is said that no matter how old a child is, he will always be a child in the eyes of his parents, but this 31-year-old adult man, instead of "standing at 30", has stepped onto the path of repeated mistakes under the "cover" of his parents.
it is reported that the man was once detained and revoked his driver's license for traffic accident crimes, but he was still unrepentant and bent on his parents' indulgence.
there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
Source: this article is originally written in tgz360. Please indicate the source when reproduced.. Pay attention to the morning mother's parenting, focus on the child's psychological and behavioral research, be the mother who knows the child best, the friend who loves the child most, and advocate to teach the child with an equal attitude. mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/kz3icXtSgwxtWElXCmMKjrUpO61dSxQqol4FVs0Jl2fjFtWg8U4zsWhicXP13JbuYhnp9hibR6Lg4oDhFL0KiaZTqQ/?wx_fmt=gif\" data-copyright=\" 0\ "data-cropselx1=\" 0\ "data-cropselx2=\" 574\ "data-cropsely1=\" 0\ "data-cropsely2=\" 377\ "data-ratio=\" 0.65625\ "data-src=\" https://mmbiz .qpic.cn /mmbiz_gif/kz3icXtSgwxtWElXCmMKjrUpO61dSxQqol4FVs0Jl2fjFtWg8U4zsWhicXP13JbuYhnp9hibR6Lg4oDhFL0KiaZTqQ/640?wx_fmt=gif\ "data-type=\" gif\ "data-w=\" 640\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
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therefore, families who were not well-off raised a "rich second generation" who spent a lot of money.
some parents even feel that they are too busy at work to be with their children often, so they regard meeting their children's demands as a kind of compensation to their children, no matter what their children ask for.
do not know that children who are satisfied with everything will become self-centered people for a long time, losing their temper and complaining that their parents are not satisfied with everything.
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Chen Ma saw such a news on the Internet:
A 12-year-old boy broke something in a teahouse and asked his mother to pay for it. Mom just taught him a few words.
as a result, the little boy grabbed his mother by the neck and beat his mother in full view.
it's not hard to imagine how much parents usually dote on their children before they let their children hit on their mothers in public.
A long-spoiled child is bound to lack the ability to be independent and take his parents' efforts for granted. will only become a selfish" white-eyed wolf "in exchange for intensified demands and comparisons.
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not willing to let children suffer
how can children learn to turn pain into happiness if they don't endure hardship?
parents are not willing to bear hardships at all, but they are actually strangling their children's ability to survive in society in the future.
Japanese TV station NHK recently reported such a news: a 56-year-old man was unemployed at home for a long time because he failed in school as a teenager and hit a wall when he was looking for a job. He depends on his parents all the year round.
later, after his father got cancer and his mother suffered from cognitive impairment and died one after another, the man ate his parents' last meager pension and finally died in a cold home due to chronic malnutrition.
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an adult man with hands and feet gnawed at home for 30 years and finally starved to death.
I have seen such a fable in Chen Chen's storybook:
A stone of high quality was chosen by the sculptor to make a Buddha statue. As a result, the stone was very afraid of pain, so the sculptor had to give up carving and regard it as an ordinary paving stone.
the story is so simple that even the morning just entering kindergarten knows: only those who can bear hardships and are not afraid of pain can have a better life.
in our real life, how many parents are afraid of their children suffering and treat their children like flowers in a greenhouse from an early age. When the children finally get into society, they can't bear a little blow and accomplish nothing in the end.
the more parents love their children, the more they are willing to let them suffer. The hardships he endures today will eventually pave the way for him to walk better tomorrow.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/fgnkxfGnnkQUjmKbJ9AUtjNh3C3LcwFNzicDeMe0pzKbqKmKslNtl8uxROx1n0ZqkuvCYaJ82ZEwM3LPvUZ0G3w/640?wx_fmt=png\");background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:100% auto;overflow:hidden \'> ection> blindly shielding children from making mistakes
many parents like to use "the child is still young" and "the child is not sensible" as a shield to cover up their children's mistakes. but don't know, habitual son is like killing a child, and every connivance of parents is tantamount to building a wall of imprisonment for their children.
There is such news on the Internet: a 31-year-old man was caught with a fake driver's license, and according to relevant regulations, the traffic police imposed a fine of 5000 yuan and administrative detention for 15 days.
his parents are extremely excited about this:
"you've gone too far. He's just a kid. He's only 31 years old! Why are you being fined so heavily? "
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although it is said that no matter how old a child is, he will always be a child in the eyes of his parents, but this 31-year-old adult man, instead of "standing at 30", has stepped onto the path of repeated mistakes under the "cover" of his parents.
it is reported that the man was once detained and revoked his driver's license for traffic accident crimes, but he was still unrepentant and bent on his parents' indulgence.
there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
Source: this article is originally written in tgz360. Please indicate the source when reproduced.. Pay attention to the morning mother's parenting, focus on the child's psychological and behavioral research, be the mother who knows the child best, the friend who loves the child most, and advocate to teach the child with an equal attitude. mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/kz3icXtSgwxtWElXCmMKjrUpO61dSxQqol4FVs0Jl2fjFtWg8U4zsWhicXP13JbuYhnp9hibR6Lg4oDhFL0KiaZTqQ/?wx_fmt=gif\" data-copyright=\" 0\ "data-cropselx1=\" 0\ "data-cropselx2=\" 574\ "data-cropsely1=\" 0\ "data-cropsely2=\" 377\ "data-ratio=\" 0.65625\ "data-src=\" https://mmbiz .qpic.cn /mmbiz_gif/kz3icXtSgwxtWElXCmMKjrUpO61dSxQqol4FVs0Jl2fjFtWg8U4zsWhicXP13JbuYhnp9hibR6Lg4oDhFL0KiaZTqQ/640?wx_fmt=gif\ "data-type=\" gif\ "data-w=\" 640\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
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some parents even feel that they are too busy at work to be with their children often, so they regard meeting their children's demands as a kind of compensation to their children, no matter what their children ask for.
do not know that children who are satisfied with everything will become self-centered people for a long time, losing their temper and complaining that their parents are not satisfied with everything.
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Chen Ma saw such a news on the Internet:
A 12-year-old boy broke something in a teahouse and asked his mother to pay for it. Mom just taught him a few words.
as a result, the little boy grabbed his mother by the neck and beat his mother in full view.
it's not hard to imagine how much parents usually dote on their children before they let their children hit on their mothers in public.
A long-spoiled child is bound to lack the ability to be independent and take his parents' efforts for granted. will only become a selfish" white-eyed wolf "in exchange for intensified demands and comparisons.
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not willing to let children suffer
how can children learn to turn pain into happiness if they don't endure hardship?
parents are not willing to bear hardships at all, but they are actually strangling their children's ability to survive in society in the future.
Japanese TV station NHK recently reported such a news: a 56-year-old man was unemployed at home for a long time because he failed in school as a teenager and hit a wall when he was looking for a job. He depends on his parents all the year round.
later, after his father got cancer and his mother suffered from cognitive impairment and died one after another, the man ate his parents' last meager pension and finally died in a cold home due to chronic malnutrition.
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an adult man with hands and feet gnawed at home for 30 years and finally starved to death.
I have seen such a fable in Chen Chen's storybook:
A stone of high quality was chosen by the sculptor to make a Buddha statue. As a result, the stone was very afraid of pain, so the sculptor had to give up carving and regard it as an ordinary paving stone.
the story is so simple that even the morning just entering kindergarten knows: only those who can bear hardships and are not afraid of pain can have a better life.
in our real life, how many parents are afraid of their children suffering and treat their children like flowers in a greenhouse from an early age. When the children finally get into society, they can't bear a little blow and accomplish nothing in the end.
the more parents love their children, the more they are willing to let them suffer. The hardships he endures today will eventually pave the way for him to walk better tomorrow.
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many parents like to use "the child is still young" and "the child is not sensible" as a shield to cover up their children's mistakes. but don't know, habitual son is like killing a child, and every connivance of parents is tantamount to building a wall of imprisonment for their children.
There is such news on the Internet: a 31-year-old man was caught with a fake driver's license, and according to relevant regulations, the traffic police imposed a fine of 5000 yuan and administrative detention for 15 days.
his parents are extremely excited about this:
"you've gone too far. He's just a kid. He's only 31 years old! Why are you being fined so heavily? "
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/kz3icXtSgwxsZMQ4HibaicF2yDKWibm18wqvMcKicfVHfFCP4MW6tqCEUMFNyU3Xxe7edZkzUbd5Vjz3XDznQGxrX4A/?wx_fmt=png\" data-ratio=\ "1.3761061946902655\" data-s=\ "300640\" data-src=\ "https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/kz3icXtSgwxsZMQ4HibaicF2yDKWibm18wqvMcKicfVHfFCP4MW6tqCEUMFNyU3Xxe7edZkzUbd5Vjz3XDznQGxrX4A/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 452\ "style=\" font-size: 16px Text-align: center;white-space: normal;width: 100% span style= height: auto;\ "> 31 years old or a child? The police at the scene were stunned when they heard this sentence.
although it is said that no matter how old a child is, he will always be a child in the eyes of his parents, but this 31-year-old adult man, instead of "standing at 30", has stepped onto the path of repeated mistakes under the "cover" of his parents.
it is reported that the man was once detained and revoked his driver's license for traffic accident crimes, but he was still unrepentant and bent on his parents' indulgence.
there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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do not know that children who are satisfied with everything will become self-centered people for a long time, losing their temper and complaining that their parents are not satisfied with everything.
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Chen Ma saw such a news on the Internet:
A 12-year-old boy broke something in a teahouse and asked his mother to pay for it. Mom just taught him a few words.
as a result, the little boy grabbed his mother by the neck and beat his mother in full view.
it's not hard to imagine how much parents usually dote on their children before they let their children hit on their mothers in public.
A long-spoiled child is bound to lack the ability to be independent and take his parents' efforts for granted. will only become a selfish" white-eyed wolf "in exchange for intensified demands and comparisons.
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not willing to let children suffer
how can children learn to turn pain into happiness if they don't endure hardship?
parents are not willing to bear hardships at all, but they are actually strangling their children's ability to survive in society in the future.
Japanese TV station NHK recently reported such a news: a 56-year-old man was unemployed at home for a long time because he failed in school as a teenager and hit a wall when he was looking for a job. He depends on his parents all the year round.
later, after his father got cancer and his mother suffered from cognitive impairment and died one after another, the man ate his parents' last meager pension and finally died in a cold home due to chronic malnutrition.
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an adult man with hands and feet gnawed at home for 30 years and finally starved to death.
I have seen such a fable in Chen Chen's storybook:
A stone of high quality was chosen by the sculptor to make a Buddha statue. As a result, the stone was very afraid of pain, so the sculptor had to give up carving and regard it as an ordinary paving stone.
the story is so simple that even the morning just entering kindergarten knows: only those who can bear hardships and are not afraid of pain can have a better life.
in our real life, how many parents are afraid of their children suffering and treat their children like flowers in a greenhouse from an early age. When the children finally get into society, they can't bear a little blow and accomplish nothing in the end.
the more parents love their children, the more they are willing to let them suffer. The hardships he endures today will eventually pave the way for him to walk better tomorrow.
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many parents like to use "the child is still young" and "the child is not sensible" as a shield to cover up their children's mistakes. but don't know, habitual son is like killing a child, and every connivance of parents is tantamount to building a wall of imprisonment for their children.
There is such news on the Internet: a 31-year-old man was caught with a fake driver's license, and according to relevant regulations, the traffic police imposed a fine of 5000 yuan and administrative detention for 15 days.
his parents are extremely excited about this:
"you've gone too far. He's just a kid. He's only 31 years old! Why are you being fined so heavily? "
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although it is said that no matter how old a child is, he will always be a child in the eyes of his parents, but this 31-year-old adult man, instead of "standing at 30", has stepped onto the path of repeated mistakes under the "cover" of his parents.
it is reported that the man was once detained and revoked his driver's license for traffic accident crimes, but he was still unrepentant and bent on his parents' indulgence.
there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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do not know that children who are satisfied with everything will become self-centered people for a long time, losing their temper and complaining that their parents are not satisfied with everything.
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Chen Ma saw such a news on the Internet:
To bring out the best in your unique feminist nature, 50s style cocktail dress is exactly what it will take. Take time to drink in these spectacular collections!
do not know that children who are satisfied with everything will become self-centered people for a long time, losing their temper and complaining that their parents are not satisfied with everything.
Chen Ma saw such a news on the Internet:
it's not hard to imagine how much parents usually dote on their children before they let their children hit on their mothers in public.
A long-spoiled child is bound to lack the ability to be independent and take his parents' efforts for granted. will only become a selfish" white-eyed wolf "in exchange for intensified demands and comparisons.
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not willing to let children suffer
how can children learn to turn pain into happiness if they don't endure hardship?
parents are not willing to bear hardships at all, but they are actually strangling their children's ability to survive in society in the future.
Japanese TV station NHK recently reported such a news: a 56-year-old man was unemployed at home for a long time because he failed in school as a teenager and hit a wall when he was looking for a job. He depends on his parents all the year round.
later, after his father got cancer and his mother suffered from cognitive impairment and died one after another, the man ate his parents' last meager pension and finally died in a cold home due to chronic malnutrition.
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an adult man with hands and feet gnawed at home for 30 years and finally starved to death.
I have seen such a fable in Chen Chen's storybook:
A stone of high quality was chosen by the sculptor to make a Buddha statue. As a result, the stone was very afraid of pain, so the sculptor had to give up carving and regard it as an ordinary paving stone.
the story is so simple that even the morning just entering kindergarten knows: only those who can bear hardships and are not afraid of pain can have a better life.
in our real life, how many parents are afraid of their children suffering and treat their children like flowers in a greenhouse from an early age. When the children finally get into society, they can't bear a little blow and accomplish nothing in the end.
the more parents love their children, the more they are willing to let them suffer. The hardships he endures today will eventually pave the way for him to walk better tomorrow.
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/fgnkxfGnnkQUjmKbJ9AUtjNh3C3LcwFNzicDeMe0pzKbqKmKslNtl8uxROx1n0ZqkuvCYaJ82ZEwM3LPvUZ0G3w/640?wx_fmt=png\");background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:100% auto;overflow:hidden \'> ection> blindly shielding children from making mistakes
many parents like to use "the child is still young" and "the child is not sensible" as a shield to cover up their children's mistakes. but don't know, habitual son is like killing a child, and every connivance of parents is tantamount to building a wall of imprisonment for their children.
There is such news on the Internet: a 31-year-old man was caught with a fake driver's license, and according to relevant regulations, the traffic police imposed a fine of 5000 yuan and administrative detention for 15 days.
his parents are extremely excited about this:
"you've gone too far. He's just a kid. He's only 31 years old! Why are you being fined so heavily? "
mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/kz3icXtSgwxsZMQ4HibaicF2yDKWibm18wqvMcKicfVHfFCP4MW6tqCEUMFNyU3Xxe7edZkzUbd5Vjz3XDznQGxrX4A/?wx_fmt=png\" data-ratio=\ "1.3761061946902655\" data-s=\ "300640\" data-src=\ "https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/kz3icXtSgwxsZMQ4HibaicF2yDKWibm18wqvMcKicfVHfFCP4MW6tqCEUMFNyU3Xxe7edZkzUbd5Vjz3XDznQGxrX4A/640?wx_fmt=png\" data-type=\" png\ "data-w=\" 452\ "style=\" font-size: 16px Text-align: center;white-space: normal;width: 100% span style= height: auto;\ "> 31 years old or a child? The police at the scene were stunned when they heard this sentence.
although it is said that no matter how old a child is, he will always be a child in the eyes of his parents, but this 31-year-old adult man, instead of "standing at 30", has stepped onto the path of repeated mistakes under the "cover" of his parents.
it is reported that the man was once detained and revoked his driver's license for traffic accident crimes, but he was still unrepentant and bent on his parents' indulgence.
there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
Source: this article is originally written in tgz360. Please indicate the source when reproduced.. Pay attention to the morning mother's parenting, focus on the child's psychological and behavioral research, be the mother who knows the child best, the friend who loves the child most, and advocate to teach the child with an equal attitude. mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/kz3icXtSgwxtWElXCmMKjrUpO61dSxQqol4FVs0Jl2fjFtWg8U4zsWhicXP13JbuYhnp9hibR6Lg4oDhFL0KiaZTqQ/?wx_fmt=gif\" data-copyright=\" 0\ "data-cropselx1=\" 0\ "data-cropselx2=\" 574\ "data-cropsely1=\" 0\ "data-cropsely2=\" 377\ "data-ratio=\" 0.65625\ "data-src=\" https://mmbiz .qpic.cn /mmbiz_gif/kz3icXtSgwxtWElXCmMKjrUpO61dSxQqol4FVs0Jl2fjFtWg8U4zsWhicXP13JbuYhnp9hibR6Lg4oDhFL0KiaZTqQ/640?wx_fmt=gif\ "data-type=\" gif\ "data-w=\" 640\ "style=\" width: 100% Box-sizing: border-box! important;overflow-wrap: break-word! important;visibility: visible! important;height: auto;\ ">
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A long-spoiled child is bound to lack the ability to be independent and take his parents' efforts for granted. will only become a selfish" white-eyed wolf "in exchange for intensified demands and comparisons.
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not willing to let children suffer
how can children learn to turn pain into happiness if they don't endure hardship?
parents are not willing to bear hardships at all, but they are actually strangling their children's ability to survive in society in the future.
Japanese TV station NHK recently reported such a news: a 56-year-old man was unemployed at home for a long time because he failed in school as a teenager and hit a wall when he was looking for a job. He depends on his parents all the year round.
later, after his father got cancer and his mother suffered from cognitive impairment and died one after another, the man ate his parents' last meager pension and finally died in a cold home due to chronic malnutrition.
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an adult man with hands and feet gnawed at home for 30 years and finally starved to death.
I have seen such a fable in Chen Chen's storybook:
A stone of high quality was chosen by the sculptor to make a Buddha statue. As a result, the stone was very afraid of pain, so the sculptor had to give up carving and regard it as an ordinary paving stone.
the story is so simple that even the morning just entering kindergarten knows: only those who can bear hardships and are not afraid of pain can have a better life.
in our real life, how many parents are afraid of their children suffering and treat their children like flowers in a greenhouse from an early age. When the children finally get into society, they can't bear a little blow and accomplish nothing in the end.
the more parents love their children, the more they are willing to let them suffer. The hardships he endures today will eventually pave the way for him to walk better tomorrow.
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A long-spoiled child is bound to lack the ability to be independent and take his parents' efforts for granted. will only become a selfish" white-eyed wolf "in exchange for intensified demands and comparisons.
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not willing to let children suffer
not willing to let children suffer
blindly shielding children from making mistakes
31 years old or a child? The police at the scene were stunned when they heard this sentence.
although it is said that no matter how old a child is, he will always be a child in the eyes of his parents, but this 31-year-old adult man, instead of "standing at 30", has stepped onto the path of repeated mistakes under the "cover" of his parents.
it is reported that the man was once detained and revoked his driver's license for traffic accident crimes, but he was still unrepentant and bent on his parents' indulgence.
there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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it is reported that the man was once detained and revoked his driver's license for traffic accident crimes, but he was still unrepentant and bent on his parents' indulgence.
there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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there is no child in the world who does not make mistakes in the process of growing up. When a child makes a small mistake, parents do not pay attention to it and choose to protect the child, then the child will eventually be subject to social lessons and legal sanctions.
Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
Today's children, the cost of making mistakes is too low, we have to tell children that we have to pay the price for making mistakes.
if we continue to allow parents to give in to their children, our children will be terrible and our future will be terrible.
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parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University once said:
parents' true love for their children should be to have requirements, restrictions and rules on their children's behavior, and to educate and guide them with love.
- is to help children learn to be content and grateful and help them establish a correct outlook on money and money.Let children know that everything can be done according to one's ability
- is to know how to let go, be willing to let the child endure hardships and let the child grow up on his own, instead of creating a greenhouse to slowly raise and waste the child.
- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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- is to first teach children to face mistakes, take responsibility, and teach children to distinguish between right and wrong.
doting is not good for your child's character and life. If you have the above three behaviors of doting your child, be sure to correct them in time. Don't delay your child's life because of your temporary softness.
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