The four words of Yang Zi's father reveal the cruelest truth of family education.

The most important education is always the education of love!

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Wen | Egg Mommy

" I am summer rain, I am summer snow, I am hail. "

this classic line from "having Children" runs through countless precious memories on the way of growing up.

two reorganized families, three children with different personalities, perform the daily chores of each ordinary family.

14 years later this family comedy appeared on the hit search again. In the past, we laughed when we watched it, but now we understand it.

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revisit" Family has Children ". The educational concept of father Xia Donghai still seems to be not out of date and is worth learning and using for reference by all our parents.

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be friends with your child

Communication is the first hurdle for parents to educate their children.

good communication is the foundation of education and the first prerequisite for reasoning with children.

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" you, what do you, what do you know? "

"what are you doing this for!"

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because of this, son Liu Xing has always been resistant to his mother and is unwilling to talk to his mother. On the contrary, father Xia Donghai has a completely different way of dealing with the rebellious Liu Xing.

he used a" buddy "attitude to communicate with Liu Xing, which really opened the hearts of children, not only solved many problems, but also made them good friends who talked about everything.

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in many cases, we can keep a low profile, make friends with our children, treat them as equal and independent individuals, and encourage their expressed desires.

can not only understand the child's inner world, but also enhance the parent-child relationship.

respect children's right to privacy

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"at large, it is a sign of the progress of social civilization. At a young age, how can a child learn to respect others without respect?"

A child who is not respected for privacy will not know how to respect others, and a child who is constantly monitored will not be able to see the world clearly.

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the watched child has no privacy, like a king in new clothes, like a cheated Truman, ridiculous and pathetic.

how to talk about the future without self.

remember reading such a sentence:

"as a mother, I know how difficult and important it is to let go moderately."

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Let go moderately and respect our children's privacy is an important lesson for parents.

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teach children to be optimistic

what if the child encounters setbacks?

Xia Donghai encouraged Lesser Snow to "be calm, be strong, be United, and most importantly be optimistic!"

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Darwin said:" optimism is the beacon of hope, it guides you from the valley of danger to a smooth path, so that you get a new life, new hope, support your ideal will never die. "

people's life is not always plain sailing and will encounter a lot of setbacks.

some people fail when they encounter setbacks, while others can overcome difficulties in another way, depending on a spirit called "optimism".

failure is not terrible, what is terrible is despair.

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We taught them patience, taught them politeness, taught them to read, but forgot to tell them optimism.

Hope that a hundred years later, we can leave our children with the most valuable asset, that is, courage, tenacity and optimism in the face of setbacks.

because it is the simplest and simplest wish of every parent to wish his child safe and happy.

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parents should lead by example all the time

parents are the best teachers and first teachers for their children.

take Huang Lei as an excellent teacher and actor, and his daughter Duoduo is the idol of many children and can be regarded as a "child of another family".

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just like Xia Donghai rejects the dishonest producers in the play, what qualities you want your child to have, you must first have him.

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Children's education is always an endless lesson for parents, and it can't start all over again, let alone allow failure.

many parents, like soldiers who are about to go to battle with guns for the first time, are always in a hurry, afraid of making mistakes and more afraid of saying mistakes, delaying their children's life.

in fact, parents don't have to be nervous, and it's okay to learn and grow up with their children. Be yourself, and your child will naturally be just like you.

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the most important education is always love education pan>

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Wen | Egg Mommy

" I am summer rain, I am summer snow, I am hail. "

this classic line from "having Children" runs through countless precious memories on the way of growing up.

two reorganized families, three children with different personalities, perform the daily chores of each ordinary family.

14 years later this family comedy appeared on the hit search again. In the past, we laughed when we watched it, but now we understand it.

revisit" Family has Children ". The educational concept of father Xia Donghai still seems to be not out of date and is worth learning and using for reference by all our parents.

one

be friends with your child

Communication is the first hurdle for parents to educate their children.

good communication is the foundation of education and the first prerequisite for reasoning with children.

pan>

" you, what do you, what do you know? "

"what are you doing this for!"

he used a" buddy "attitude to communicate with Liu Xing, which really opened the hearts of children, not only solved many problems, but also made them good friends who talked about everything.

pan>

in many cases, we can keep a low profile, make friends with our children, treat them as equal and independent individuals, and encourage their expressed desires.

can not only understand the child's inner world, but also enhance the parent-child relationship.

respect children's right to privacy

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be friends with your child

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respect children's right to privacy

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respect children's right to privacy

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teach children to be optimistic

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Darwin said:" optimism is the beacon of hope, it guides you from the valley of danger to a smooth path, so that you get a new life, new hope, support your ideal will never die. "

people's life is not always plain sailing and will encounter a lot of setbacks.

some people fail when they encounter setbacks, while others can overcome difficulties in another way, depending on a spirit called "optimism".

failure is not terrible, what is terrible is despair.

pan>

We taught them patience, taught them politeness, taught them to read, but forgot to tell them optimism.

Hope that a hundred years later, we can leave our children with the most valuable asset, that is, courage, tenacity and optimism in the face of setbacks.

because it is the simplest and simplest wish of every parent to wish his child safe and happy.

four

parents should lead by example all the time

parents are the best teachers and first teachers for their children.

take Huang Lei as an excellent teacher and actor, and his daughter Duoduo is the idol of many children and can be regarded as a "child of another family".

pan>

pan>

pan>

just like Xia Donghai rejects the dishonest producers in the play, what qualities you want your child to have, you must first have him.

Children's education is always an endless lesson for parents, and it can't start all over again, let alone allow failure.

in fact, parents don't have to be nervous, and it's okay to learn and grow up with their children. Be yourself, and your child will naturally be just like you.

pan>

the most important education is always love education pan>

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parents should lead by example all the time

parents are the best teachers and first teachers for their children.

take Huang Lei as an excellent teacher and actor, and his daughter Duoduo is the idol of many children and can be regarded as a "child of another family".

pan>

pan>

pan>

just like Xia Donghai rejects the dishonest producers in the play, what qualities you want your child to have, you must first have him.

Children's education is always an endless lesson for parents, and it can't start all over again, let alone allow failure.

in fact, parents don't have to be nervous, and it's okay to learn and grow up with their children. Be yourself, and your child will naturally be just like you.

pan>

the most important education is always love education pan>

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parents should lead by example all the time

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