respect is a prerequisite for all relationships.

people, the lower the level, the more likely they are to be aggressive and treat others like air.

High-level people, know how to take the feelings of others to heart, modest gentleman, gentle and moist as jade.

only by respecting and supporting each other in any relationship can we build a stage for a long time.

and the people who do these three things in front of you actually look down on you and are not worthy of deep acquaintance.

belittle your sarcasm in front of others

some people, even if you do not offend him, will hate you, denigrate you, make things difficult for you, and even want to destroy you.

they like to be jealous of breaking down, because I am not good, and I will not let you.

if you are happy, you must step on it to satisfy their fragile vanity.

in their view, no matter how good you are, you are only lucky; no matter how aggrieved you are, you are nothing but a joke; no matter how kind you are, you are just pretentious.

in the TV series "our Marriage", there is such a plot, which is particularly memorable.

at Li Yuwen's birthday dinner, a college classmate always insinuated him that he didn't have many skills, and his greatest skill was to marry a wife who could make money.

all the students present echoed with laughter.

Li Yuwen was extremely embarrassed, but he could only force a smile on his face.

how could anyone know that he chose to stay at home to take care of the children in order to support his wife's career.

some people make fun of you. If you can't laugh, it means it's ridicule.

True humor is based on respect for others and makes each other happy.

hypocritical humor is to ridicule others in the name of joking, poke at other people's shortcomings, and sprinkle salt on other people's scars.

for the rest of your life, don't make jokes with people, let alone get too close to people who belittle and satirize you, and get to know people who make you comfortable.

the person who speaks ill of you behind your back

there are often a few people who like to gossip around us.

they have little success in their regular jobs, but in order to show off in front of others, to show how talkative and well-informed they are, and to gain a sense of self-righteous achievement.

for this reason, they would rather spread rumors behind their back to speak ill of others, so that some gossip can be spread among acquaintances.

there is a question in Zhihu: what is the experience of getting along with a person who always speaks ill of others behind their backs?

A high praise replied:

knowing that he spoke ill of you without proof, it was like eating a fly, disgusting and unable to spit it out.

if you get along with them for a long time, you will inevitably get some bad habits, so you should stay away from them early.

there is a good saying:

"when you see a troublemaker, you don't have to slap him in the face, just disappear from his world."

people who embarrass you face to face

when, on what occasion, what object, and how to get along with each other, you can best see a person's EQ and self-cultivation.

the real EQ is high, not because you know too much about the world, but because you have others in your heart and take care of other people's feelings.

Laozi said, "when Great Way is implemented, it is not to blame others."

blaming others at will, embarrassing others, and making people unable to step down is not wise. On the contrary, it exposes a person's narrow and shallow mind.

likes a story written by writer Jia Pingwa very much:

A friend stutters and speaks slowly. One day he comes across someone asking for directions on the road, but this person stutters unexpectedly, and the friend doesn't say a word.

then I asked him why he didn't say it, and my friend replied:

"people stutter, too. If I answer, that person thinks I'm imitating and teasing."

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No one is an isolated island, which is inextricably related to the surrounding environment and people.

it is a discipline to be in awe of the people around you, to be measured and to treat each other with courtesy.

it is not the strong who forces others into a dilemma. It is not only a respect but also a quiet kindness to give each other a step in time to avoid embarrassment and leave leeway for others to retreat.

people often say: you should treat others as you want others to treat you.

people are always each other. If you are mean to others, don't expect others to smile at you.

on the way of life, we should screen out those insolent and hypocritical people, and then let us know who really cares about us and who is comfortable with us.

it is beautiful to be with people who are comfortable with each other and stand silent.