Three taboos for educating children. It is recommended to have a look at all those who have children.

May we all give our children spiritual enrichment.

author xa0 | xa0 Egg Mommy

deprive a child of his will

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novel is not 3, 000 words, 30, 000 words, but 300000 words.

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the little girl who loves reading has carved her little dream in stroke by stroke for three years.

things that ordinary adults can't easily do, how much such a young child has to love to write.

but her father didn't think it was a big deal.

angry at the child, all torn up.

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"followThere is no direct connection to study. "

" Father is helping you, get on the right path! "

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the father doesn't care, and the sparkling eyes go out little by little when his daughter mentions his creation.

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"you cut off my wings and blamed me for not flying."

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our parents always plan their children's future with a bright vision. Sometimes I forget that children have their own ideas.

as Yingzi said in "Little Joy":

" that's your wish, not mine. "

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is it really right to dispose of your child's thoughts as a parent with the phrase" for your own good "?

the original dream is also the most precious.

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it is not an object, but a priceless spiritual wealth.

for the spiritual enrichment of children, start with the dream of protecting children.

True love is not control and suppression, but acceptance and respect.

compare with other children

many people have such a" other family's child "in childhood.

what happened to these kids when they grew up? This is how they replied:

@ small coffee table:

from the time I was compared, I couldn't let go of my prejudices. I will hate the person who is compared to me.

@ Sam:

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@ Lonely tiger:

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the children who grow up in the comparison are not very happy later.

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A survey conducted by China Youth Daily shows that 83.4% of the parents surveyed admitted that they envy the excellence of other people's children and often compare their own children with other people's children.

our initial intention is also a kind of encouragement and encouragement to children.

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13-year-old boy every day, because his father has been boasting other people's children, leaving such a note.After that, he ran away from home:

"Dad, I'm leaving, you don't have to look for me. I don't know you, and you don't know me. You shouldn't have a son like me. Goodbye, Dad."

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" you are not as good as other people's children "has become a thorn in the child's heart, causing the child to sting all the time.

the child suffers and struggles and chooses the extreme way of running away from home, swallowing sarcasm and sarcasm like "look at other people's parents".

ourselves, can we accept such a comparison?

over time, the parent-child relationship is as difficult to melt as a frozen wall, and those love and care are all isolated from the wall.

treat hard work as a moral kidnapping

I suffer all for you!

you are sorry if you don't study hard!

Don't buy it, the family can't afford you.

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it is true that we fight in our respective positions every day to give our families a brighter future.

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guilt that parents' sufferings are brought by themselves, because they don't deserve to enjoy, don't deserve to have and pursue.

only because parents are "victims" of the family.

long backlog brings mental burden and exhaustion.

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how much it costs to raise me, I'll write you a check when I grow up, and I'll never have to say a word to you again.

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is that what our parents want?

there is a saying by Mr. Lu Xun:

" carrying the heavy burden of tradition, he shouldered the dark floodgates and let them go to a wide and bright place. From then on, live happily ever after and be a reasonable person. "

this is a great and difficult thing.

We raise children and supply them, not for spring sowing and autumn harvest, but for children to live their lives.Wonderful.

Please remove the heavy pressure on the child so that they can breathe more freely.

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the lucky man cures his childhood for a lifetime, while the unfortunate man cures it for a lifetime.

True spiritual enrichment is not filled with material, accumulated with contentment, but nourished and nourished spiritually.

in the cultivation of the Chinese, Peking University President Cai Yuanpei wrote:

" what determines a child's life is not academic achievement, but sound personality cultivation. If you want to develop a sound personality, the first thing parents need to do is to change the tone and way of saying. "

use communication instead of dictatorship, encouragement instead of comparison, empathy instead of kidnapping.

wish every parent can provide real spiritual nourishment to his child and accompany him to grow into a towering tree.

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* this article is an original mother's manual (ID:jqfans) and an official account of mothers and babies followed by 4 million mothers. Author: egg mother, a baby mother with rich parenting experience, sharing parenting knowledge, parent-child education experience, marriage and family feelings, and growing up with tens of millions of parents.

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deprive a child of his will

compare with other children

many people have such a" other family's child "in childhood.

what happened to these kids when they grew up? This is how they replied:

@ small coffee table:

from the time I was compared, I couldn't let go of my prejudices. I will hate the person who is compared to me.

@ Sam:

pan>

@ Lonely tiger:

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the children who grow up in the comparison are not very happy later.

pan>

our initial intention is also a kind of encouragement and encouragement to children.

pan>

13-year-old boy every day, because his father has been boasting other people's children, leaving such a note.After that, he ran away from home:

"Dad, I'm leaving, you don't have to look for me. I don't know you, and you don't know me. You shouldn't have a son like me. Goodbye, Dad."

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" you are not as good as other people's children "has become a thorn in the child's heart, causing the child to sting all the time.

the child suffers and struggles and chooses the extreme way of running away from home, swallowing sarcasm and sarcasm like "look at other people's parents".

ourselves, can we accept such a comparison?

over time, the parent-child relationship is as difficult to melt as a frozen wall, and those love and care are all isolated from the wall.

treat hard work as a moral kidnapping

I suffer all for you!

you are sorry if you don't study hard!

Don't buy it, the family can't afford you.

pan>

it is true that we fight in our respective positions every day to give our families a brighter future.

pan>

guilt that parents' sufferings are brought by themselves, because they don't deserve to enjoy, don't deserve to have and pursue.

only because parents are "victims" of the family.

long backlog brings mental burden and exhaustion.

pan>

how much it costs to raise me, I'll write you a check when I grow up, and I'll never have to say a word to you again.

is that what our parents want?

there is a saying by Mr. Lu Xun:

" carrying the heavy burden of tradition, he shouldered the dark floodgates and let them go to a wide and bright place. From then on, live happily ever after and be a reasonable person. "

this is a great and difficult thing.

We raise children and supply them, not for spring sowing and autumn harvest, but for children to live their lives.Wonderful.

Please remove the heavy pressure on the child so that they can breathe more freely.

the lucky man cures his childhood for a lifetime, while the unfortunate man cures it for a lifetime.

True spiritual enrichment is not filled with material, accumulated with contentment, but nourished and nourished spiritually.

in the cultivation of the Chinese, Peking University President Cai Yuanpei wrote:

" what determines a child's life is not academic achievement, but sound personality cultivation. If you want to develop a sound personality, the first thing parents need to do is to change the tone and way of saying. "

use communication instead of dictatorship, encouragement instead of comparison, empathy instead of kidnapping.

wish every parent can provide real spiritual nourishment to his child and accompany him to grow into a towering tree.

-xa0END-

compare with other children

@ small coffee table:

from the time I was compared, I couldn't let go of my prejudices. I will hate the person who is compared to me.

@ Sam:

pan>

@ Lonely tiger:

pan>

the children who grow up in the comparison are not very happy later.

pan>

our initial intention is also a kind of encouragement and encouragement to children.

pan>

13-year-old boy every day, because his father has been boasting other people's children, leaving such a note.After that, he ran away from home:

"Dad, I'm leaving, you don't have to look for me. I don't know you, and you don't know me. You shouldn't have a son like me. Goodbye, Dad."

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" you are not as good as other people's children "has become a thorn in the child's heart, causing the child to sting all the time.

the child suffers and struggles and chooses the extreme way of running away from home, swallowing sarcasm and sarcasm like "look at other people's parents".

ourselves, can we accept such a comparison?

over time, the parent-child relationship is as difficult to melt as a frozen wall, and those love and care are all isolated from the wall.

treat hard work as a moral kidnapping

I suffer all for you!

you are sorry if you don't study hard!

Don't buy it, the family can't afford you.

pan>

it is true that we fight in our respective positions every day to give our families a brighter future.

pan>

guilt that parents' sufferings are brought by themselves, because they don't deserve to enjoy, don't deserve to have and pursue.

only because parents are "victims" of the family.

long backlog brings mental burden and exhaustion.

pan>

how much it costs to raise me, I'll write you a check when I grow up, and I'll never have to say a word to you again.

is that what our parents want?

there is a saying by Mr. Lu Xun:

" carrying the heavy burden of tradition, he shouldered the dark floodgates and let them go to a wide and bright place. From then on, live happily ever after and be a reasonable person. "

this is a great and difficult thing.

We raise children and supply them, not for spring sowing and autumn harvest, but for children to live their lives.Wonderful.

Please remove the heavy pressure on the child so that they can breathe more freely.

@ small coffee table:

from the time I was compared, I couldn't let go of my prejudices. I will hate the person who is compared to me.

@ Sam:

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@ Lonely tiger:

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@ Sam:

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@ Lonely tiger:

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@ Sam:

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@ Lonely tiger:

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@ Lonely tiger:

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@ Lonely tiger:

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treat hard work as a moral kidnapping

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