What's wrong with you? It's just a baby!

There is only one key between the child and the angel, between you and the fairy.

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everyone enjoyed talking to each other, but she was the only one with anxiety and uneasiness all over her face.

you know, in the past, she was a pistachio for all of us, laughing constantly where she existed.

after the party, I pulled her:" you look tired and unhappy, what's the matter? "

unexpectedly, a simple concern made her collapse instantly.

she cried," I'm going to collapse. I must have done something in my last life to give birth to such a debt collector! "

this debt collection is her junior high school son.

since entering junior high school, my son looks like a different person: addicted to games, refuses to learn, and loses his temper without saying a few words.

just a year ago, my son was a sweet little warm man and often shared some interesting things with her.

but last weekend, she had the worst conflict ever with her son.

early that morning, my son sat on the sofa and played with his cell phone until the afternoon. She urged dozens of times to wash, eat, and do her homework, but her son was indifferent and motionless.

finally, she couldn't stand it and rushed to grab her son's phone.

the son stood up angrily and held it up.It's like you're going to hit someone with your fist.

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Xiao Bing was very angry and knocked hard on the door, but his son did not open it.

she was so angry that she lost her mind at that moment and began to kick the door when she couldn't open the door.

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hearing his father's words, the son shouted in the room: " Yes! " she is sick, so take her to treatment immediately! "

for more than ten years, she has devoted all her time and energy to her child. She asked herself that she had spared her heart and heart to the child in return for the phrase "you are sick"!

at that moment, she even had a dead heart.

looking at the tearful Xiao Bing, I tried to give some advice: "Adolescent children are very independent, especially boys, it is very difficult to resist, why not change his father to take care of it for a while?"

Xiao Bing reddened her eyes again:

his father was transferred to the company headquarters two years ago and can only come back once every ten days and a half months.

the child is in a hurry, but he can do nothing but blame me.

every time he talks about the child, he accuses me of being wrong. I complain that he will only help. Our relationship is getting more and more tense because of the child.

if he had really been in charge, I think the relationship between the two men would have been turned upside down! "

what worries Xiao Bing even more is that there is an elder at home who is very successful in his career, because he is very frustrated because he is busy working hard.

Xiao Bing said: "the last time I saw that elder, he told me that he had raised a black sheep in his family and felt worried about the late scene, and suddenly found that there was no point in working so hard."

between words, Xiao Bing is full of frustration.

Yes! As Li Ka-shing said: No matter how successful one is in his career, he cannot make up for the failure of educating his children.

successful people who have created business miracles, especially for us ordinary parents.

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Xiaobing reminds me of my cousin Juanzi, who grew up together.

A few months ago, Juanzi called me in a hurry. I was in a meeting and told her she was busy.

she changed her usual state of laughing and laughing and said solemnly," if it wasn't very serious, I wouldn't call you! " After hearing this, I was stunned and hastened to call her immediately after the meeting.

after two hours of communication, I finally figured it out.

Juanzi said that her fifth-grade daughter, Xiao Cen, is now very addicted to her mobile phone, but she doesn't pay attention to her studies.

comes home from school every day, holds the phone and slumps on the sofa like a piece of meat.

holding a mobile phone is not playing boring games, or chatting with classmates and friends in various groups.

called her to dinner, "nice" to respond to you, but slowly moved over. Let her do her homework, "mm-hmm" perfunctory, wandering in the mind for half an hour.

make an appointment with her to play with your phone, so you can start with a good deal, and when the time is up, I'll make a deal with you:" I'll give it to you in five minutes! "

if you say yes, jump up happily and indulge in your phone right away. I've never seen her so focused on her homework! If you don't agree, I will immediately turn my face and lose my temper and give you a look.

Friday to pick up the child, the head teacher kept Juanzi for a while, saying that the child's grades dropped a little, and that she was easily distracted in class, so she was more disciplined.

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"only knows how to play with mobile phones every day! I don't think you should go to school, eat or sleep in the future. Just stay with your lifeblood. "

such a roar, my daughter jumped up, threw her phone on the floor and cried, "you're not satisfied with what I do, I might as well die!"

Juanzi is helpless, thinking that I usually know something about education for my children, so call me.

Xiao Cen really likes to chat with me, so I found a time to communicate with her on the phone.

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talking about her mother, Xiao Cen is very aggrieved:

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Xiao Bing was very angry and knocked hard on the door, but his son did not open it.

she was so angry that she lost her mind at that moment and began to kick the door when she couldn't open the door.

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"only knows how to play with mobile phones every day! I don't think you should go to school, eat or sleep in the future. Just stay with your lifeblood. "

such a roar, my daughter jumped up, threw her phone on the floor and cried, "you're not satisfied with what I do, I might as well die!"

you are very thoughtful and often read books that inspire you.

you are very good at expressing your views. I get a lot of inspiration from your words.

you also express your needs clearly, and you want your mother to understand you, not ask you.

when I gave her positive feedback, she opened her heart and talked a lot about her boredom and loss.

I asked her," do you like it in your heart when you often hold your cell phone and have no interest in learning? " She whispered, "No, but I don't know what to do."

I went on to ask:

"you are willing to make a plan for what you need to do every day, and playing with your mobile phone is also a part of it. At the end of each day, look at how much you have completed on your to-do list, and even if you complete one more plan every day, give yourself an appreciation of progress, okay?"

after many times of communication and guidance with Xiao Cen, Xiao Cen is willing to take the initiative to send me her own plan list. I fully appreciate her initiative every time, and some plans are not specific enough, so I ask her how she can be more specific.

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what is more enjoyable than the improvement of self-management ability is that she sees that she can do a lot of things, and there are more and more confident smiles on her face.

Juanzi was so happy that he pulled me and asked," what magic do you have to make my daughter change so much? "

actually, I just used two simple communication skills in communicating with Xiao Cen.

one is communication skills with children

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Let the child feel that he is seen and understood, so that the child's heart will be opened and the guidance will be effective.

the other is the skill of guiding children to manage independently

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gives children the opportunity to think and plan on their own, rather than blindly giving methods and suggestions.

these two simple skills, I am participating in pan> 14-day training camp for anxious mothers.

witnessed the story of parents and children. I found that: whenever you love your child deeply, the child doesn't know how to love, but he has been trying hard to make you happy.

it's just that as your child grows up, there is something missing between you and your child, which makes that once lovely little angel become a headache "little devil". So that the once elegant little fairy has become a "roaring mother" who is easy to freak out.

between the child and the angel, there is only one key, while pan> is the key to the anxious mother's deformation meter.

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if your child

the habit is bad, you have to rush everything.

not only failed, but also cold war with you.

indulge in electronic products.

performance is not satisfactory, and learning initiative needs to be improved.

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if you

was calm and elegant, but was furious by the child's" problems ".

originally wanted to talk to the child, but it was hard to get out of the mood when he was not careful.

originally helped the child to improve the situation, but found that all kinds of tricks tried but failed.

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one is communication skills with children

the other is the skill of guiding children to manage independently

if your child

the habit is bad, you have to rush everything.

not only failed, but also cold war with you.

indulge in electronic products.

performance is not satisfactory, and learning initiative needs to be improved.

was calm and elegant, but was furious by the child's" problems ".

originally wanted to talk to the child, but it was hard to get out of the mood when he was not careful.

originally helped the child to improve the situation, but found that all kinds of tricks tried but failed.

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14-day training camp

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in these 14 days of immersive learning, you will gain

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14-day training camp

in these 14 days of immersive learning, you will gain

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principles for improving the emotional management skills of yourself and your children

the good news is, just spend 9.9 yuan pan> course.

this time I am with organizers cooperate to open 200study places, and those who want to participate can sign up by scanning the QR code!

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admission instructions

the preparatory camp time is September 6-8 (during the preparatory camp, you can directly apply for a refund if you are not accustomed to the way of learning).

official camp time is September 9-22 for a total of 14 days .

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Click read the original , just pan> Let's bid farewell to anxiety and return to elegance and calm.

the good news is, just spend 9.9 yuan pan> course.

this time I am with organizers cooperate to open 200study places, and those who want to participate can sign up by scanning the QR code!

admission instructions

the preparatory camp time is September 6-8 (during the preparatory camp, you can directly apply for a refund if you are not accustomed to the way of learning).

official camp time is September 9-22 for a total of 14 days .

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Click read the original , just pan> Let's bid farewell to anxiety and return to elegance and calm.

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Click read the original , just pan> Let's bid farewell to anxiety and return to elegance and calm.